Im glad at last that its ok if not cool to use grooming products, im a runner and have used moisturiser for years (albeit my wifes) so its great all these new products are out there any ideas guys?!!

There are dozens of products out there now for men, and I have tried the Nivea products which are good and not expensive at all.

There's nothing to be ashamed of in using moisturisers and face creams. I'll draw the line at bikini wax or skin tighten creams though

Personally I think this is all long overdue as looking after skin gives you a healthier complexion, boosts your self confidence and is just plain sensible.

I spend a lot of time in front of a pc and I think that this has affected my skin it looks dull and grey. Im also living in Scotland now and the cold tends to chap my skin as well when I go out which is infrequent (due to amount of time on the pc..!!)

Does anyone know what I can use to try and help both symptoms?

I think you've answered your own question, move down south and get out more..!!!

I don't want a guy who spends more time in front of the mirror than me, but i do want him to smell nice, have soft skin etc.  Much nicer!

I think it's great that men have started to care about beauty - now they'll know what we women go through and stop complaining when we spend a lot of time in the bathroom!

male grooming is now the norm. men can have treatments as well as women and take pride in the way they look. go to bodyperfectclinic.com and they even have a well man clinic just for guys!!!!